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Violence & The Gift of Fear
| Violence & Intuition
The ability to predict violence is important in avoiding antisocial and asocial violence.
Gavin de Becker describes how - in detail - in his book 'The Gift of Fear - Survival Signals that Protect Us from Violence'. You can read more here and here, or buy here. This is an overview.
Predicting human behaviour is about reading the signals that others give us. Our body's evolutionary technology is already skilled at doing this! Intuition - in the context of violence - is us signalling to ourselves that danger may exist. We need to listen to and then explore our intuition. However, in the modern world, we tend to ignore or explain away our intuition, preferring to act habitually or logically or in a socially polite way. Predatory criminals take advantage of these tendencies. Also, the modern world is more about controlling risks rather than predicting risks. We need to re-access this amazing technology.
Violent acts do not occur in isolation or randomly. There is a chain of events that lead up to them. If we can intuit an earlier link in the chain, we may be able to avoid the violence altogether. The strongest intuitive signal we give ourselves is fear, after which, in order of urgency come: apprehension, suspicion, hesitation. Then: doubt, gut feelings, hunches, curiosity. Then there are: nagging feelings, persistent thoughts, physical sensations, wonder and anxiety.
Intuition is always right in the sense that it is responding to something and has your best interests at heart. However, our interpretation of it is not always correct. Nevertheless, it is wiser to explore these feelings. It may avert disaster. Even if no danger is identified, we will have updated our intuition for the future. Plus, we become skilled at communicating with ourselves!
Will you honour your intuition?
If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. That's the lesson. That lesson alone, will save you a lot of grief. Even doubt means don't.